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wildcat
Date Posted:
2/20/2018 12:00:00 AM
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Subject: Really asking for feedback.......paddlings and jockstraps
Its been a year or so since i wrote about one of my Uncles experiences getting paddled back in school wearing his jock and the intense reaction to the whole situation.
Soon after that i young man started contacting me with his own story and a lot of questions about why seeing his own brother is the same type of situation got him so worked up.
More recently i have witnessed a few paddlings, the boys wearing only a jockstrap and wrestling singlet. (yes they are still legal in places and legal in almost all places in private schools). I will have to say, it is astonishing as the gamit of emotion which runs through me watching it unfold.
Its like a mullet personified, Man in the front, boy in the back, or something like that.
One minute a teenage boy steps up to be a man, putting on the manliest garment ever know, a jockstrap. Then moments later he is brought back down to boy status, although very tough boy to take what is dished out to them and not end up like a sniveling child.
Such a give and take event, portraying the fight for our manliness we all go through at times. Wanting to be free and in charge of ourselves only to be reeled in to the submissiveness required by societal rules.
Ok to long, but are any of you guys interested in me finishing into story form any of my experiences or those i have been told about involving paddlings in a locker room or athletic setting that sometimes involves the paddled being in a jockstrap?
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Author:
Bike57
Date Posted:
2/23/2018 12:00:00 AM
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Subject: Jockstrap Paddling
With the storyline you have given us so far I think you should "tell the rest of the story" as one famous broadcaster has done many times. It has to be highly emotional to the kid in the jockstrap getting punished for crossing a certain line, as well as for the coach dishing it out. At what point is a verbal calling out not enough. At what point does the coach show remorse. At some point is the athlete looking for attention and does he crave the punishment? So many angles to discover. |
Author:
Strapped Wrangler
Date Posted:
2/23/2018 12:00:00 AM
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Subject: TELL MORE
I thought the stories were real hot. Some of the guys got erections from being paddled, and I think one shot his wad. I think the observer got turned on.
I have not seen this happen nor have I wanted to be part of it, but some guys do it. I found the stories strangely hot.
I agree that the guy getting paddled would be a man from the front, standing there with his manhood in a jockstrap, especially if he responded with a boner; he would be a stud. He would take the challenge. His boner would be an insult to the guy doing the paddling.
My interpretation would not be that the guy getting paddled would be a boy from behind. Nor would he be a submissive.
I would see it more like an initiation, a proof of manhood. If he was being disciplined for his behavior, it would be like a wild teenager being asked to show the self control of a man. I would see it more like Boot Camp.
I expect the coach doing the paddling would not chose a timid kid who might not be able to take it. I think he would chose a studly kid who "needed to be disciplined". It would be in a way a compliment.
And, I think any coach who did this would be getting sexual thrill out of it.
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Author:
wildcat
Date Posted:
2/24/2018 12:00:00 AM
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Ok, i take that as enough of a yes to work on getting those experiences into an enjoyable story format. |
Author:
wildcat
Date Posted:
2/25/2018 12:00:00 AM
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So since i started working with a school helping with their wrestling program, and witnessed guys getting paddled there, it has raised a lot of questions. Questions i have posed to teammates and others.
Many guys who have replied to me are under the impression paddling is illegal in schools. It is not, at least not in all schools. 19 states still allow paddling in public schools and 48 states it is still legal in non public schools. From all i know and have witnessed and heard, i would have to say i agree with paddling as a form of punishment.
Paddling was still done in my Middle school (actually in my high school too, i just wasn't involved in it too much). I got single whack paddling's a couple times in middle school, both times it was more a group thing, not anything i did personally, but more wrong place wrong time. Although i will have to say i could have steered the group in a different direction....and did many times in the future just remembering what one lick felt like on my rear.
Bobby, my foster brother has been a huge insight on paddling, sharing experiences from before i knew him.
One of the surprises is how talkative Colt and his brothers have been, and even his nephew Carson who is just a young teen now.
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Author:
Strapdad
Date Posted:
4/15/2018 12:00:00 AM
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In my private high school I had heard stories of one coach using paddling as a form of punishment. I never witnessed it but had heard about it. Our weight room was upstairs and from what I wad told you would walk up the stairs walk down them and at the bottom the coach would hit your bottom. |
Author:
wildcat
Date Posted:
5/7/2018 12:00:00 AM
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As i said in a story soon to be posted, my experiences of being on the wrong end of a paddle are limited, but enough that i can see and understand the range of emotions the guys i have talked too went through in being paddled. From about the age of 7 to 10 or 11 my Dad used his belt on me a few times, but for all i remember it wasn't something i did that earned me a sore rear, but more a poor choice in how I reacted to being caught or reprimanded about something. The couple school paddlings were more wrong place right time or right time wrong place however you want to look at it.
I have been surprised at how many guys my age actually have personal experiences either their own but getting set on fire or witnessing a friend or teammates demise.
There are several common things with everyone i talked to that experienced a paddling in their teenage years anyway (younger kids, like my age when getting the belt, seem to have more anger at that moment, or maybe its just frustration at not being allowed to grow up at the rate they thought they should, i know that was what got me in trouble those times.
None of the times that have been described to me are fits of anger on the givers part or the receivers. It is a pre-planned and well executed application of punishment. There is a bit of fear and dread in it, which is a part of the punishment. There is of course the pain of the spanking to help you remember what not to do anymore.....and despite all arguments, every guy who i have talked to who received it believed it very affective, of course some suffer from shorter memories than other and thus got more frequent reminders. There is embarrassment, and to be honest without that you do loose some of the effectiveness.
Then the most surprising and intriguing part of it is the sexual aspect of it. From my age down to whatever age sex became important to the young man, one of your best assets is your ass. You hope to have the looks and the hair and the face to attract the girls, but if all else fails a nice tight ass or a big bulge will get a girls attention. Totally muddy and sweaty coming off the field from football, there were always girls around to watch are asses march to the fieldhouse. So in paddling one of your greatest sexual assets is the center of punishment and embarrassment. There is like an immediate need to reclaim your manhood. In every case i have been told about there is something about your dick that is a side affect or a distraction. The story you will soon see posted, the guy held his package to calm himself down and reclaim his normal breathing. I have been told of guys going to the showers to jerk off or the stall to take their mind off their rear end and its pain and burn. Then there is a guy who as a teen would make a mess in his underwear every time he witnessed his brother take a paddling. Every witness tells of some degree of blood flow themselves watching their peers take their punishment. Their is an admiration for the guy taking the punishment by both his peer spectators and by the administrator. |
Author:
Bike57
Date Posted:
5/23/2018 12:00:00 AM
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Subject: Paddling Story
Your post was well written and very emotional on paddling. I don't think I was ever sucked into a story as much as this one. At times it was difficult to continue as the punishment escalated. At times we have all had to be brought back to "zero" on our behavioral scale. At times you knew you had it coming, other time it was a complete surprise. The whole team learns the lesson despite the sore ass of just one member. |
Author:
wildcat
Date Posted:
8/31/2018 12:00:00 AM
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Subject: a couple more stories
Hey guys I posted one paddling story a couple weeks ago and it caused another one to land in my lap which I just submitted the first half of to AK, hopefully it will get posted soon.
again I am eager to know your feedback. These are some of the most emotional but impressive coming of age experiences in many of these guys lives, whether its something you want to read about I don't know til you tell me! |
Author:
Strapped Wrangler
Date Posted:
9/3/2018 12:00:00 AM
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Subject: YOUR NEW PADDLING STORY ABOUT CRAIG
This is a great story! It is not actually focused on the paddling. It is a rites of passage story about the envied school jocks. Craig is invited into their elite circle. Every guy's dream!
In tribal cultures the elders create initiations for all the young men, so that all are bonded and all are strong. This is necessary so that their tribe is not defeated by enemies.
Initiations include enduring great physical feats; the paddling served this purpose in this story. Initiation includes the development of brotherhood where none are excluded. There is usually some form sexual sharing involved in the bonding. Body paint, body modification or special clothing pronounces all equal men. In this case jockstraps served that purpose.
This story is actually very deep and rich. The facing of trauma with the manly guys, chased away Craig's fears of inadequacy, of shame of his body, and it was a positive psychological shift. It upgraded his life. This is a true rites of passage that all young men should find, but in our culture only the jocks do.
A more important message of this story is that most guys, even the school jocks, have a heart, and they desire to help the weaker guy man-up and join their group. It is true that there are real bullies in the world, and they get too much credit. But there are actually more nice guys on the teams where guys bond and encourage each other.
I hope readers will see the world of jocks as more supportive as a result of this story. In real life the door saying "welcome" is often more open than some of us think.
Craig had the rare chance to find that out.
I think it is amazing that Craig kept a hardon in his jockstrap through all the fear and all the pain. Craig was the true stud that had just not discovered himself yet!
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Author:
Strapped Wrangler
Date Posted:
9/3/2018 12:00:00 AM
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Subject: PS
Craig was and is straight. But he jacked off to visions of the school studs strutting around the locker room in their jockstraps, proclaiming themselves the school's kings. He did not want to have sex with them. The reason is that before a young man is ready to confidently pursue sex with a female, he needs to first establish his own sense of manhood from which to draw his strength. Craig was desiring to feel what the confident guys felt who knew they were men. He wanted to be like them. This is not gay. This is bonding or identity building. But he didn't think he qualified.
If Craig had put on a jockstrap for gym; if he had stripped and showered naked, no matter what his body looked like; if he had started conversations with the school jocks in the showers, I think they would have befriended him long ago. If you and your buddies wore jockstraps, wouldn't you feel validated if some other guys wore jockstraps too?
Craig wanted to join the admired manly guys, but he never would have had the courage to take that step by himself.
A unique set of circumstances pulled Craig into their group. Right away they gave him a jockstrap to wear, told him to put it on, and they gave him a second one. He lived every guy's dream to be invited into the stud's inner circle.
And perhaps there was some wisdom in a coach who knew how to pull the insecure guy out of his course to remain "second string" all through life, and bump him up to "first string" in the world of men.
In earlier generations a jockstrap was a powerful, powerful symbol of brotherhood of men. Guys who have not been part of that "rites of passage" system, may not have any clue why a jockstrap could hold so much meaning for those who experienced it.
I do not see that the generation of young men who rejected jocks has found anything to replace it.
Wildcat was born into a clan of jock wearing athletes. I don't know of anyone his young age who can explain the team-building culture of jockstraps like he can. I hope that you guys don't miss the deeper man-building messages in his stories.
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Author:
Bike57
Date Posted:
9/10/2018 12:00:00 AM
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Subject: Craig's Story
Well written like always. There should be a manual for boys growing up so life doesn't have to be learned the hard way. Dads and coaches were there for the important stuff, but them I think they enjoyed seeing their boys stumble out of bounds once in a while. A paddling brings all boys back to earth. Some boys learn from it, some develop extreme anger. What is not taught is that all boys seek affirmation from their male counter parts. Of course some are constantly acting up to keep the focus on themselves, maybe covering up other faults in their life. Paddling these days is rare, but in some cases should be brought back into favor. It's hard to keep a boy focused with a time out. |
Author:
wildcat
Date Posted:
9/16/2018 12:00:00 AM
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Subject: Thanks
Thanks Strapped wrangler and Bike57.
Thanks SW as always for you support and input and being there to bounce things off of.
Bike 57 thanks too.
Boys need the right of passage of the jock and the paddle I think
I saw something on the news here just this week about a couple school districts bringing back paddling. A couple things caught my attention in the reports, these aren't necessarily the same school or anything, just random things said about paddling for these schools bringing it back, while other have a renewed sense of encouraging teachers to use it.
One said that paddling (one of the schools bringing it back) would range between 3 and 5 licks. saying if it warranted paddling then it warranted at least 3 licks.
Another interviewed (not necessarily part of the schools bringing it back) said Coaches needed more leave way maybe than classroom teachers did to paddle as necessary since they have a higher student to adult ratio normally and are in an environment easier for kids to get our of hand if not handled properly and if they didn't respect the punishment for getting our of hand.
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